How to Seduce a Woman – What to Avoid

When it comes to seducing a woman, most men are pretty clueless. It’s just the way things are. Seduction is a subtle thing if it is done right and most guys are pretty awkward when it comes to trying to act subtle. You either end up with guys that will not make any kind of move at all, and then there are the guys that try WAY too hard. You want to really fall somewhere in between. After all, you do want to be the kind of guy that can walk into any bar or club, approach a woman, and leave with HER, am I right?

So, what should YOU do to seduce a woman?

Well instead of telling you what to do, I decided to put together a small list of things you should NEVER do at ALL!

Here they are:

1. Run cheesy out of date pick up lines on her. Unless you are looking to get slapped in the face, laughed at, or just shut down without any hope at all, NEVER use one of these. Look, anyone that recommends that you use pick up lines to seduce women probably has never seduced a woman in their life. At least, not an attractive woman.

2. Try a long winded routine. Unless you are a great actor, there is no point in trying to memorize some routine only to mess it up later on. And there are a lot of women out there that can see through these routines and they will reject you on this principle alone.

3. Try to approach every woman that you can, hoping that one will fall for YOU. This is that classic approach ten or twenty women and you are guaranteed to succeed. Well, that might be true, but that has more to do with probability than skill. You want to know what works to seduce a woman so that you can eye a woman, choose her, and know how to make it happen. That is skill and that is real selection.